Are you unhappy with the way you look? Do you believe a body part(s) or aspect of your appearance is ugly, gross, flawed, abnormal, disfigured, deformed, or hideous? Do you spend a lot of your time thinking or worrying about your physical appearance?
You constantly check yourself in the mirror, scrutinize your appearance, compare your appearance with others, use lots of beauty products, pick your skin or pull your hair, and ask others about how you look. You don’t like going out or people seeing you so, when you do go out, you cover up strategically using clothing or makeup. You have researched online about cosmetic procedures and may have sought out surgery, but none of this works - you still feel depressed, anxious, stressed, disgusted, angry, inadequate, worthless, and unlovable because of how you feel about your appearance. It’s hard to sleep, work, socialize, date, or think about anything else. It feels like an obsession, an addiction because all you can think about is your flawed appearance and how to fix it. When people tell you you’re beautiful it makes you feel worse because no matter what they say you don’t believe them - they just don’t get it. You just want to be happy. If this sounds like you, I might be a great therapist for you.